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12 Rules for Marriage: How I Rewired Trauma, Survived Divorce, and Learned to Love

“His deep dives into psychoanalytic trips as well as behavioral techniques are impressive… His discovery of Carl Jung’s concept of the ‘Shadow’ was especially intriguing.” — Jeanne H Ross, M.A., M.S.W., L.C.S.W.

“Using his pain as a teacher, he explores valuable lessons in love, trust, and personal growth… If he can help even one person avoid the struggles he faced, then this work will have truly been worthwhile.” — Susan Fontaine, Screen Writer

“Victor Giusfredi has done all the research and laid the groundwork… condensed the knowledge into practical and easy to understand methods to enhance our romantic relationships… 12 Rules for Marriage is a must!” — Janine J Sesa, Software Engineer, Poet, Cofounder of The Blue Fox Writers Group

From the Author of No Grail Without Dragons

This inspiring practical memoir provides a step-by-step approach to building a happier marriage from the inside out. 12 Rules for Marriage tells the story of Victor Giusfredi, a twice-divorced young man forced to confront his own blindspots to recover from devastating relationship failures, escape the claws of trauma triggers, and rebuild his romantic life. He embarks on a life-changing journey of personal transformation, where he learns powerful, wise, and practical strategies that help us to:

  • HARNESS GREATER SELF-AWARENESS

  • DISMANTLE SELF-SABOTAGING PATTERNS

  • DEVELOP UNSHAKEABLE TRUST

  • CULTIVATE INTIMACY AND ROMANCE

  • REKINDLE PASSION AND FULFILLMENT, AND

  • FEEL CHERISHED AND PRIORITIZED

No Grail Without Dragons: A Man’s Unconventional Path to Love, Purpose, and Peace.

In No Grail Without Dragons, Victor Giusfredi shares insights from his journey of resilience, self-actualization, and the pursuit of inner peace. In a vulnerable, first-person approach, this memoir offers a raw and glimpse into a man's personal battles, where dragons are not mythical creatures, but the beasts that many of us wrestle with.

From navigating a challenging childhood to finding purpose and direction after a second divorce, Giusfredi's first book shares the tools and strategies that instilled lasting change in his life. No Grail Without Dragons is a roadmap to defeating limiting beliefs, learning through loss, and healing open wounds.