As men, we must admit that adult websites are something we have visited at least once. At 10 I stumbled upon my friend’s dad's adult magazines by mistake, and discovered explicit content exploring the world of anime as a teen. Adult content wasn’t something I sought or desired, but the field of life brimmed with xxx landmines. What if our desire for intimacy is a learned habit, and not a natural instinct? This post explores the dark secrets of pornography and its profound impact on relationships, mental health, and societal norms.